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By Ajia Raheemat

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who should be blamed in our relationship with people. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in the area of giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life in this perspective there would be much fewer problems associated with love all round the world.
Take off all your envies, jealousy, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness and fears and you will find out that things are not actually as difficult as it seems.
There was a lovely couple in my area that had a baby boy after eleven years of marriage and the boy became the apple of their eyes.
When the boy was about two years old, one morning, the husband saw an adult medicine bottle carelessly opened while already rushing out for work and told his wife to cover it and keep it safe. Out of her busy time, she forgot to keep the medicine out of the boy's reach.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully took it, fascinated with its color, he gulped it all and overdosed the medicine; he collapsed and was rushed to the hospital where he was confirmed dead. The wife was stunned and terrified not knowing how to face her husband.
When the distraught husband rushed to hospital and saw their dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
He said "I love you darling".
The husband's unexpected reaction was strange to his wife, the child is dead, he can never be brought back to life.
This is a very difficult situation, at the same time there is no point in finding fault or attacking the wife, though, she should have taken time to keep the bottle away from their teenager and prevent the situation from happening.
There was no point in blame game after the death of the boy. She had also lost her only child. 
What she needed and got at that moment was consolation and sympathy from her husband.
This is a short lesson and the moral of the story is that we should learn to tolerate ourselves irrespective of the situation.

Relationship guide Reviewed by Unknown on November 02, 2018 Rating: 5

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